It is indeed a real art ... focusing just on ourselves ... but no one taught us that. … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
You see … it’s not necessary to be number one … but to follow your real destiny.
It’s not important to be better than the others … and compare with them all the time … but to be a better soul as the one you’ve been yesterday.
… that is the real evolution.
It’s funny having in my life … kind of a friend that even if he is doing quite well in all his businesses … and he has about 4 at the moment … every time i meet him, usually once at 1–2 months … he’s telling me all kind of stories about people that we know.
That one … lost his wife that left home, because she is in love with someone else … that one closed his shop because he was so stupid that in the end was bankrupt … that friend from the kindergarten lost all he had at the casino etc etc.
In 5 minutes i hear all what happened recently in our area … and he knows all those details.
I don’t need to ask anyone else about the news … cause he will inform me with everything.
But my question is … why he never inform me also about the positive news from our area?! … cause i am sure that at least something positive is happening from time to time in here.
Why he is so focused on the misery of others?! … when in fact he is actually a very successful guy … having a beautiful family, a fancy car, lots of opportunities in his daily life … and his businesses are running excellent.
Why is he doing that?!
Well … my dear friend is indeed practicing a non sense behavior.
And even if i see so clear the evolution of his success all the time … i also see his obsession regarding the misery of the others … probably as a desire of comparing himself with them … and see a huge distance between his position and the position of the ones that are in a negative episode of their lives.
Is hard for me to understand this disease of comparing ourselves with the others around us … and i am sure i have it too … but i try to cure myself and compare just the me of today … with the me of yesterday … hoping that the me from tomorrow will always be a better one.
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